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"DONT WORK HARD…"WORK SMART…
(Short Story )
اعمل بذكاء ولاتعمل بشكل مرهق..

قديما و في أحد قرى الهند الصغيرة، كان هناك مزارع غير محظوظ لاقتراضه
مبلغا كبيرا من المال من أحد مقرضي المال في القرية. مقرض المال هذا
_ و هو عجوز و قبيح _ أعجب ببنت المزارع الفاتنة، لذا قدم عرضا
بمقايضة.

Many years ago in a small Indian village, a farmer had the
.misfortune of owing a large sum of money to a village moneylender
The moneylender, who was old and ugly, fancied the farmer’s
.beautiful daughter. So he proposed a bargain

قال: بأنه سيعفي المزارع من القرض إذا زوجه ابنته. ارتاع المزارع و
ابنته من هذا العرض. عندئذ اقترح مقرض المال الماكر بأن يدع المزارع و
ابنته للقدر أن يقرر هذا الأمر. أخبرهم بأنه سيضع حصاتين واحدة سوداء
و الأخرى بيضاء في كيس النقود، و على الفتاة التقاط أحد الحصاتين.

He said he would forgo the farmer’s debt if he could marry his
daughter. Both the farmer and his daughter were horrified by the
proposal. So the cunning money-lender suggested that they let
providence decide the matter. He told them that he would put a
black pebble and a white pebble into an empty money bag. Then the girl
.would have to pick one pebble from the bag

1. إذا التقطت الحصاة السوداء، تصبح زوجته و يتنازل عن قرض أبيها

2. إذا التقطت الحصاة البيضاء، لا تتزوجه و يتنازل عن قرض أبيها

3. إذا رفضت التقاط أي حصاة، سيسجن والدها

1) If she picked the black pebble, she would become his wife and
.her father’s debt would be forgiven

2) If she picked the white pebble she need not marry him and her
.father’s debt would still be forgiven

3) But if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be thrown
.into jail

كان الجميع واقفين على ممر مفروش بالحصى في أرض المزارع، و حينما كان
النقاش جاريا، انحنى مقرض المال ليلتقط حصاتين . انتبهت الفتاة حادة
البصر أن الرجل التقط حصاتين سوداوين و وضعهما في الكيس. ثم طلب من
الفتاة التقاط حصاة من الكيس.

.They were standing on a pebble strewn path in the farmer’s field
.As they talked, the moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles
As he picked them up, the
sharp-eyed girl noticed that he had picked up two black pebbles and
put them into the bag. He then asked the girl to pick a pebble from
.the bag

الآن تخيل أنك كنت تقف هناك ، بماذا ستنصح الفتاة ؟

Now, imagine that you were standing in the field. What would you
have done if you were the girl? If you had to advise her, what
?would you have told her

إذا حللنا الموقف بعناية سنستنتج الاحتمالات التالية:

:Careful analysis would produce three possibilities

1. سترفض الفتاة التقاط الحصاة

2. يجب على الفتاة إظهار وجود حصاتين سوداوين في كيس النقود و بيان
أن مقرض المال رجل غشاش.

3. تلتقط الفتاة الحصاة السوداء و تضحي بنفسها لتنقذ أباها من
الدين و السجن.

1. The girl should refuse to take a pebble

2. The girl should show that there were two black pebbles in the
bag and expose the money-lender as a cheat

3. The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice herself in
order to save
her father from his debt and imprisonment

تأمل لحظة في هذه الحكاية، إنها تسرد حتى نقدر الفرق بين التفكير
السطحي و التفكير المنطقي. إن ورطة هذه الفتاة لا يمكن الإفلات منها
إذا استخدمنا التفكير المنطقي الاعتيادي. فكر بالنتائج التي ستحدث إذا
اختارت الفتاة إجابة الأسئلة المنطقية في الأعلى.

Take a moment to ponder over the story. The above story is used
with the hope that it will make us appreciate the difference
between lateral and logical thinking. The girl’s dilemma cannot be
solved with traditional logical thinking. Think of the consequences
.if she chooses the above logical answers

مرة أخرى، ماذا ستنصح الفتاة ؟

?What would you recommend to the Girl to do

حسنا .. هذا ما فعلته الفتاة:

….Well, here is what she did

أدخلت الفتاة يدها في كيس النقود و سحبت منه حصاة و بدون أن تفتح يدها
و تنظر إلى لون الحصاة تعثرت و أسقطت الحصاة من يدها في الممر المملوء
بالحصى ، و بذلك لا يمكن الجزم بلون الحصاة التي التقطتها الفتاة.

.The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a pebble
Without looking at it, she fumbled and let it fall onto the
pebble-strewn path where it immediately became lost among all the
.other pebbles

"يا لي من حمقاء، و لكننا نستطيع النظر في الكيس للحصاة الباقية و
عندئذ نعرف لون الحصاة التي التقطتها" هكذا قالت الفتاة، و بما أن
الحصاة المتبقية سوداء، فإننا سنفترض أنها التقطت الحصاة البيضاء. و
بما أن مقرض المال لن يجرؤ على فضح عدم أمانته ‘ فإن الفتاة قد غيرت
بما ظهر أنه موقف مستحيل التصرف به إلى موقف نافع لأبعد الحدود

Oh, how clumsy of me," she said. "But never mind, if you look into"
the bag for the one that is left, you will be able to tell which
pebble I picked." Since the remaining pebble is black, it must be
assumed that she had picked the white one. And since the
money-lender dared not admit his dishonesty, the girl changed what
.seemed an impossible situation into an extremely advantageous one

الدروس المستفادة من القصة:

MORAL OF THE STORY

هناك حل لأعقد المشاكل، و لكننا لا نحاول التفكير. اعمل بذكاء و لا
تعمل بشكل مرهق.

Most complex problems do have a solution. It is only that we don’t
attempt to think. Start your day with this thought provoking story
.and have a nice day

"DONT WORK HARD…… "WORK SMART

Always ask God to give you
what you deserve…Not what you desire… Your desires may be a
الجيريا

.few, but you deserve a lot

True.. What you said and what you wrote down is basically 100% true,,

Also That is sure we need to thank god everyday, actuallay not everyday but every minute and second that we are who we are right now..

I like the topic name darling ,, strong and sharp words that is attractive to whoever passes by this English Forum ..

Thanx love..

If I was in the father shoes I’ll make big fight will end me to jail for 2 reasons
1- I’ll refused to give the old man my daughter
2- I cann’t pay hime back his money
3- I might kill him
and in all the above cases I’ll ruin my life so bad.

the girl was really smart/clever and did it with brilliant idea.
i told you sandy woman are damn smart than us loool

that’s wonderful story indeed thanks and keep it up

المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة

Thanx love..

you know Nadosh
i like your comments coz they make me happy الجيريا
thank you so much sweetheart for all that words which you wrote them about the topic and me

الجيريا

المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة

If I was in the father shoes I’ll make big fight will end me to jail for 2 reasons
1- I’ll refused to give the old man my daughter
2- I cann’t pay hime back his money
3- I might kill him
and in all the above cases I’ll ruin my life so bad.

the girl was really smart/clever and did it with brilliant idea.

that’s wonderful story indeed thanks and keep it up

first of all
I AM CANDY WITH /k/ SOUND الجيريا

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your suggestions are logical
but they don’t do anything in that horrible situation

المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة

i told you sandy woman are damn smart than us loool

المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة

i know…… i know

if there is no women there is no soloutins الجيريا

thanks for your nice comment and evaluation الجيريا

take this

Hard Moment !!k

When they go a way & leave you alone, cause of their own life, their own friends…That maybe you are not one of them, but you did not know !! k

Hard moment

When they leave & quit from your life without telling you…without making any sounds, just like a professional thief !h

Hard Moment

When they consider you as a vase
on an old s h e l f !! In that moment you feel sorry for your poor self !d

And wish that you

Never and ever remember them
…Never & ever hear their voic
…Never & ever hug their letter
…Never & ever smell their kindness

because no matter what you do They will never come back to you!j

Be patient & remember this:l

Every time you feel pain & sad it & look to your life as a nightmare& your soul is about to run away from your body, it means

that you are getting closer
to the solution of your problem.k

Because when it is complicated more & more
!Suddenly it disappear

That happens when you believe that Allah is great & he can give you every good thing & protect you from every bad thing, because one of his names is Allatif (The Subtle One!) Just

be sure and thank our great God every second

very nice topic

Thankyou very much for this nice topic..
It has a lot of meanings..
and ofcourse we have to thank god every day , well i mean ever second because god gave us a safe and a happy life.. Alhamdallah

.. Thank you Story Love ( or Love Story , which is more correct ) for this beautiful passage
It already reminds us that holding on to Allah during difficult times , is our only way out

Pardon me for intruding , but I think it’s my duty to let you know about the couple of mistakes you’ve made here

I think it’s best to show you the corrected forms as a whole..
: This is how this beautiful passage should’ve been written

.. It’s hard

every time they go away and leave you behind ( alone ) because
you didn’t realize that you’re not part of their lives
nor one of their friends

.. It’s hard

When they slip away without saying goodbye .

.. it’s hard

When you’re like a vase , to them ; a vase on an old shelf .
Thus , you feel sorry for yourself and you start hoping that you’ll never
remember their faces , hear their voices , hold their letters ,nor get fooled
by their kindness

After all , no matter what you do , they’ll never come back to you

.. Just be patient and remember that every time you’re sad and in pain
That whenever you start feeling that your life is a nightmare and your soul
is about to leave your body , it means that it’s going to get better

That’s what happens at crucial moments ; because Allah will always
be there for you , support you , help you . No wonder that " Allatif
is one of His holy names

. Still , I appreciate your effort . You have to keep it up

yea … it is hard الجيريا

sooo hard
but we can’t do anything expect pray that Allah forgives them and make me forget them forever cuz we can’t bring them back !!
just to remember them broke my heart : "

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